Life...lately i've got so much to realize huh?!
something that is happening so close to my life recently. few weeks back once i heard that bro's goodfriend's wife has been diagnosed with 4th stage cancer at the moment they discovered. she's 30, and they have a 2 yrs old son. mom and bro visited her in the hospital, she was vy much awake that time. another 2-3 weeks later, i heard she went into unconscious stage. i've never met her before but the husband. both Intelliers. worst thing was the doctor misdiagnosed her for ovarian cancer and removed her ovary then only told her that it's not the cause. the cause was burkitt's lymphoma cancer. well, virus spread pretty fast than anyone can imagine, within week, it reached almost the whole body organs/systems. she needed to be on kidney dialysis 24 hrs, and stayed ICU. still unconscious.
the hubby then moved into my house since our house is just few blocks away from the hospital and his house is at mainland. it's for convenience and easy access sake. looking at the condition that it's so critical, he needs to be on 24 hrs standby also. my heart hadn't been in real peace either. i'm afriad to know that his phone rings and it's from the hospital. but on the other hand, we're all praying for her. praying for the best, but what could be the best now?!
last Friday during lunch hour, gathered few of our colleagues to go for blood donation as she needed at least 3 packets of blood daily and hospital was charging rm500 per packet, and her medical bill had already exceeded her medical coverage. hence i urged all ppl whom i know to go for blood donation for her. (one of the reasons i couldnt go below 45kg now) i'm glad that many friends responded and actually went donating. on behalf of their family, i'd like to thank u all my dear friends. u've indeed done a good deed.
the next day, Saturday morning, he was called to the hospital, she was very unstable then, doctor predicted that she can't survive pass 12 noon. WTH?! how do you feel when you hear ur loved one has few more hours left?? i seriously dare not imagine that, but he's been acting very very strong. i was taking my shower that time, my heart pumped fast. mom and bro went straight to the hospital. from 11am, t0 11.30am, to 12.30noon, she managed to go thru this round. doctor said she's been vy strong, it was a miracle.
the next day and the day after, i went to visit her for the first time, went into the ICU room standing right in front. it's my first time seeing her, and my first time seeing a person in such critical illness with pipings all over, the ventilator, the 24-hrs dialysis, i can see bottles of blood on the floor by her bed, she looked so weak, what i can hear was her breathing, inhale...exhale...inhale...exhale.....with doctor and nurses busy checking on her devices walking in and out. to be frank, for the moment i felt nervous, but i know i had more important thing to do for her. i stood there for one whole hour until the nurse requested us to leave.
until Friday, before i left home at 7+am for work, understand from mom that he was called by hospital this early morning 4am as she again went into vy unstable condition and the family was requested to be ready for the worst at any point of time. and well, her last breath held at 7+am that morning.
everything happened just within 6 weeks, with no symptom before that. just too fast for anyone to accept. the husband has been facing it strong, vy vy strong. and here's his blog on her - http://seeyiheng.blogspot.com/. it has touched thousands of ppl with a mere thousand hit today to his blog. i've received forwarded emails, links bout this from friends from different locations too. i'm glad bro can be by his side when he needed support the most at this time. be strong.
the hubby then moved into my house since our house is just few blocks away from the hospital and his house is at mainland. it's for convenience and easy access sake. looking at the condition that it's so critical, he needs to be on 24 hrs standby also. my heart hadn't been in real peace either. i'm afriad to know that his phone rings and it's from the hospital. but on the other hand, we're all praying for her. praying for the best, but what could be the best now?!
last Friday during lunch hour, gathered few of our colleagues to go for blood donation as she needed at least 3 packets of blood daily and hospital was charging rm500 per packet, and her medical bill had already exceeded her medical coverage. hence i urged all ppl whom i know to go for blood donation for her. (one of the reasons i couldnt go below 45kg now) i'm glad that many friends responded and actually went donating. on behalf of their family, i'd like to thank u all my dear friends. u've indeed done a good deed.
the next day, Saturday morning, he was called to the hospital, she was very unstable then, doctor predicted that she can't survive pass 12 noon. WTH?! how do you feel when you hear ur loved one has few more hours left?? i seriously dare not imagine that, but he's been acting very very strong. i was taking my shower that time, my heart pumped fast. mom and bro went straight to the hospital. from 11am, t0 11.30am, to 12.30noon, she managed to go thru this round. doctor said she's been vy strong, it was a miracle.
the next day and the day after, i went to visit her for the first time, went into the ICU room standing right in front. it's my first time seeing her, and my first time seeing a person in such critical illness with pipings all over, the ventilator, the 24-hrs dialysis, i can see bottles of blood on the floor by her bed, she looked so weak, what i can hear was her breathing, inhale...exhale...inhale...exhale.....with doctor and nurses busy checking on her devices walking in and out. to be frank, for the moment i felt nervous, but i know i had more important thing to do for her. i stood there for one whole hour until the nurse requested us to leave.
until Friday, before i left home at 7+am for work, understand from mom that he was called by hospital this early morning 4am as she again went into vy unstable condition and the family was requested to be ready for the worst at any point of time. and well, her last breath held at 7+am that morning.
everything happened just within 6 weeks, with no symptom before that. just too fast for anyone to accept. the husband has been facing it strong, vy vy strong. and here's his blog on her - http://seeyiheng.blogspot.com/. it has touched thousands of ppl with a mere thousand hit today to his blog. i've received forwarded emails, links bout this from friends from different locations too. i'm glad bro can be by his side when he needed support the most at this time. be strong.
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